Karen

Would You Like to Get Well?

February 8, 2018 in Inspirational

I love the story in John 5 about the man who waited for 38 years to get into the pool where miraculous healings happened when the waters were stirred up.  It’s one of those short biblical stories that can be read in a few seconds and if you don’t really stop and digest it, it simply disappears in the text, as Jesus did when He slipped into the crowd after the healing.  It fascinates me that somehow the man managed to get to the healing pool every day, that his friends perhaps carried him in to be sure he was there at the right time, but he never managed to get into the water.  He never responded at just the right time.  He told Jesus he couldn’t get in the water, well, because others got there first.  I don’t know about you, but this story resonates with me. It reminds me of all the times I’ve waited for God to change me or do some miraculous thing in my life, only to sit and wait, sit and wait.  Oh, sure, nearly every time that nothing happened I had an excuse.  I could say that someone else got my promotion at work, or someone else wrote the book that sold millions, or someone else jumped ahead of me in line, but not one of those things would change my circumstances.  Not one excuse could save the day!

Jesus asked the man, “Would you like to get well?” and it seems like an odd question. Of course he wants to get well. He’s been waiting 38 years to do so. Or, has be become so used to his own excuse about not taking any action to get into the pool that he simply lets the world pass him by?  I’m quite aware that I have often just been paralyzed by my own fears to move, or even to ask God to help me take another step.  I’ve been afraid of falling down in front of the world and discovering that I simply wasn’t worthy of the goal I had set. Here’s the thing!  I believe that you and I are meant to get well. I believe that we are meant to get stronger and stronger and the only thing that prevents that from happening is our fear of moving closer to the water, to the stirring of the Holy Spirit, to the plan God has for our lives. Let’s not wait 38 years! Let’s not wait another day to let Jesus know that we truly do want to get well.  In fact, we want it so much, that we will trust in His word that we must simply get up, roll up the mat that we’ve filled with excuses, and start to dance.

Whew!  There’s no one ahead of you in line today.  Get up and shout for joy!  This year, we’re not making any excuses!

Karen

“What Would You Have Me Do for You?”

January 30, 2018 in Inspirational

Recently, I was honored by my former High School and inducted into the Unatego Hall of Distinction for my work in writing and publishing. It was a tender moment for me, an opportunity to reconnect with old friends who are still dear to my heart, and to make new friends as well.  During the day, I had a chance to speak to three of the current high school classes about the work I do.  Since I was born and raised in a small upstate New York town, I was asked by one of the teachers to help the students understand how it is possible to come from humble roots and still make your mark in the world.  I thought that was a good question and so as I spoke to the students, I found myself suddenly 17 again, sitting in a classroom and wondering what could possibly be beyond those walls. Back then, I wanted to be a teacher and I hoped somehow to have a positive effect on the people around me.

I gave them a brief glimpse of my journey from teacher, to the greeting card industry, and on to publishing. I realize that we may each measure success differently, but the thing that is important is to recognize our own talents and strengths, and then do what we can to make a difference in the world.  As I said to the students, “It’s not where you come from that matters.  It’s about where you want to go.” All of this brings me full circle to the Gospel story of Jesus and the blind man.  Jesus asks the man, “What would you have me do for you?”  Now, most of us would think it’s obvious.  The man wants to see, he wants to have his eyes opened.  Or is it?

Here’s my thought.  I think we can get complacent about life. We can give ourselves excuses about why we didn’t become what we meant to become, or why we never accomplished our goals. We can be blind to those things that seem obvious to others.  We can imagine that we’re out of time or out of possibility.  I would challenge us to rethink that.  I would challenge all of us to get more curious about who we are and seek to have our eyes opened so that we could see more clearly all that we still can be.

I know for myself, I’m just at the starting gate.  I’m still curious about what else God has for me.  I want Him to touch my heart in a way that gives me a panoramic view of all that I can accomplish.  When I think that way, I’m rejuvenated, 17 again, willing to risk and try and fail and if I’m lucky, perhaps even be successful.  I’m still working on the answer that I would give if Jesus asked me, “What would you have me do for you?”  Maybe you are too!

Karen

Power Plug

January 16, 2018 in Inspirational

 

I know that the One who designed the universe by simply speaking it into being has the power to design my life. I believe God can remold and reshape me and any circumstances in which I find myself.  I simply have to be brave enough to ask.  

This quote from my Prayers from the Heart book spoke to me in a big way as I started 2018.  It reminded me that no matter how many power outages I might experience in my life, or how many times I’ve tried to move forward and failed, that I always have a chance to reconnect to the Source of my possibility.  My Surge Protector is on hand at a moment’s notice and my blowing a temporary fuse, doesn’t take me out of the game. In fact, He sees the breakdown coming before I do and helps to reset my course as quickly as possible. He knows me so well.

He knows you too.  In fact, He knew you before you were a gleam in your mother’s eye.  The problem is that we get confused about what it means to be in a position of power.  Politicians, Theologians, CEOs and Generals remind us all the time of the power they weild. They speak and one way or another, somebody jumps.  The thing to remember is that all the power players have the same Source you and I do.  Our Source will reshape and redesign us, and make us new any time we are brave enough to ask.  The One who sees us, heart first, knows who we are and what we need to turn up our light in the world.

The truth is that you have more power available to you than you realize; more than you ever will use.  You are able to do more than you give yourself permission to do.  All you have to do is stay plugged into the One Source, the One Light, and the  same Source who spoke the very universe into being.  He sees you right where you are.  Draw near, seek His voice, listen with your heart, and you will soon glow with the joy of all that He intends for you.  Plug into the ultimate power of the universe. We all benefit from your light.

Karen

Mentoring Mona Lisa

January 12, 2018 in for writers

I started reading the new DaVinci book recently and it inspired this piece.  It reminds me how much we all need each other and what a blessing it is that God has placed people who love, inspire, and mentor us in ways that help us become all that we are meant to be.  I wrote it for women originally, but it’s not really a gender specific piece.

 

Walter Isaacson’s newly released novel about Leonardo DaVinci is in part, a 15th century version of networking, and learning from the people around you.  Peeling back the onion layers of DaVinci’s life, we see that he surrounded himself with stimulating peers and mentors.  Some were much older than he was at the time, but they shared their expertise, their curiosities, and their techniques for getting ahead. Since DaVinci was curious about practically everything, he made it his business to learn things he didn’t know, and to learn from the people around him.

Consider DaVinci’s, Mona Lisa. We don’t know much about her, but her remarkable image has spanned decades. She influenced our thinking whether she meant to or not. In nearly every time and culture, people, especially women who accomplished great things, had to stand on the shoulders of those who came before them.  They managed to thrive because of the input they received from others like themselves. Today’s woman behind a Mona Lisa smile needs a mentor, a guide, a critique partner and a generous source of inspiration.

Have you put your life dream on hold? Is technology leaving you in the dust? Is social media making you downright antisocial?  Mentoring each other is not a new concept, but it’s a brilliant way to get closer to your goals; to that bar you set some time ago.

If your hope is to get your voice heard and your ideas considered in the work that you do, then reach out to those around you.  Your voice is unique.  No one else thinks exactly the way you do. No one else perceives problems or offers solutions the way you can each time you are willing and able to let your light shine.

Your workplace, or even your local small group brings an opportunity to discover your gifts of cooperation and encouragement, strategic thinking, and creativity.   You need others who recognize and foster what you do, helping you grow and develop new skills. Those who mentor others, thrive in the process, enjoying the fruit of their labors in new ways.

Peer mentors may guide you through the weeds of technology and social media.  Seasoned mentors teach you valuable lessons about timing and sensitivity; about positive attitudes and the advantage of having a sense of humor.  Somebody helped them when they were younger, and somebody will help you too.  You  have potential male and female mentors who would love to see your talents and skills be more broadly recognized.

You deserve to be heard and have a voice in the way the future unfolds. You need a structure that allows you to become all you were meant to be. Mentoring begins with you and one other person that you trust.  Just look at your skill sets and determine how you can help each other thrive.

Perhaps part of the reason the Mona Lisa could smile is that she knew who she was in her world.  She knew she could raise her voice any time she chose because she’d have people smiling back at her for centuries. She was indeed a Renaissance woman!

What can we do this year to help each other grow and accomplish our goals?

Karen

Go Ahead, Take a Chance!

January 3, 2018 in Inspirational

The following is an entry from a book I wrote for Abingdon Press called Wellspring.  I hope you enjoy it today!

 

Send your bread out on the water because, in the course of time, you may find it again.   Ecclesiastes 11:1

 

It’s not easy to figure out when to take a risk or when to start something new. Even making an effort can seem overwhelming, and yet, something nags at you, insisting that it’s time,

that today is a new day and even if you didn’t make it work before, you can now.  Think of the Nike slogan that implores you to “just do it!”

 

Procrastination may make sense in terms of giving your new ideas thoughtful consideration. Weighing the odds is a worthwhile use of your time. Getting uncomfortable, though,

is a challenge, but the writer of Ecclesiastes doesn’t really care. He says “get it done.” With a little due diligence, in the course of time, you may reap a reward, and you may win the day.

 

If you don’t cast your bread on the waters, you know that nothing can return to you. If you simply cast the bread and walk away, you won’t be expectant. You won’t recognize

the opportunity or be ready for the win. So go ahead! Take a chance on becoming all that God meant you to become and show Him and the rest of the world

what you’ve got.  It will renew your spirit and you’ll find yourself in a refreshing stream of opportunity.   Take a chance on YOU!

Karen

Warm Up to a New Year

January 2, 2018 in Inspirational

Many of us are starting out the New Year in a deep freeze as temperatures dip way below zero.  I’ve never been a good cold-weather girl so when Mr. Freeze shows up, this batgirl goes into her cave. The good news is that being in a cozy cave gives you time for reflection, time to consider new goals and what it means to you to get a fresh start.  Personally, I love starting over!  I love the idea of having a clean slate, looking at a blank page, and giving myself a chance to write a new story.  After all, no one can fill in the content of the chapters of my life better than I can.  I get to create the new goals, dreams, and hopes that provide clarity to what it is that really matters.  You get to do that too.

Oh, sure!  We often set these goals in January and by March, they are forgotten. The gyms are full of well-intentioned people determined to lose some weight or get into better shape as they start the year anew.  Those are good goals because your health is primary to everything else you do.  Today though, I’m simply encouraging you to look with love at where you’ve been, forgive yourself for those things that didn’t work out as you had hoped, and then give yourself the grace to try again.  Give yourself the opportunity to exercise your right to be a new you.

If you want to do a few warm-up exercises try this.  Inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale and with each of those breaths, give God the thanks that you are indeed alive and well. You are still growing and changing and capable of becoming more than you were last year.  Then as you raise up your arms over your head and look up to the ceiling, imagine there’s an angel there, applauding you on and encouraging you to keep lifting your arms up to heaven.  Laugh out loud as you do your own version of head and shoulders, knees, and toes, and then clap your hands with joy.  Give God thanks and praise that no matter what else is going on, you are still able to try again.  You are in a position to start a new year in hope and peace and strength.

Then relax and pull out that blank journal you meant to write in last year and start creating your story.  Talk it out with yourself and with your heavenly Father and by the time you finish the first page, you will already feel better, more positive, more in charge of the story you will tell this year.

You have an amazing story and no one can tell it like you can.  Open your heart to opportunity, to spiritual growth, and to all that God has for you.  Stay warm, my friends, and Happy New Year!

Karen

Over the Top Christmas

December 16, 2017 in Inspirational

I will confess that I’ve been accused more than once of going a little over the top when it comes to Christmas.  I love all the parts of Christmas, from the birth of the Savior to the generous spirit of Santa Claus.  I love to decorate the halls and the walls and anything else that I can adorn with glittery ornaments.  I love to plan the gifts I will give to my family and friends. Nothing quite delights my heart more than seeing their smiles as we intentionally take time to share our gifts of love.  I bake cookies and breads and give them to anyone near enough to receive them and sometimes mail them off as well.  My husband says I have a childlike heart and I’m pretty sure it comes alive at Christmas, like no other time of the year.

Perhaps my approach to celebrating the event of welcoming Baby Jesus is more than some people do.  Perhaps my desire to express my heart and my love is a little over the top, but it’s nothing compared to all that I receive through the year from the people who support me, encourage my work, revive my spirit, and help me to realize how much I have been gifted by their presence every day.  To those who would wish I might pull back, set my Christmas up more like they would do, I can only say, that we each must find our way to celebrate the greatest gift that ever happened to any of us.  I feel pretty certain that what God did that first Christmas was over the top. His gift was beyond measure and everyone who participated in the event lit up with great joy. Angels and shepherds and those who had long awaited the Savior celebrated in their hearts and expressed their love through songs of joy.  They didn’t hold back. They didn’t worry about whether any one else heard the angels singing or if anyone else found their way to the manger, they simply spread the joy every way they could.

This Christmas, I’m going to be a little over the top again. There will be lots of cookies, lots of presents, lots of Christmas music, and lots of gratitude for what God has done for all of us.  You celebrate however you wish, but I’m going to pray that this season you allow yourself to go a little over the top.

Big love to you all.

Merry Christmas!

Karen

Job’s Wife

September 20, 2017 in Family and Friends

When everything in your world starts rocking at once, you wonder if there’s something bigger going on that you just don’t know about. After all, perhaps Satan and God are duking it out over you like they once did over Job.  There doesn’t seem to be anything biblical that supports the idea that God would never do that to anyone else.  All I know is, that these seem to be our Job days. Just to give you a little run down of the events, it has gone something like this, all in the past two weeks.  First my mother was taken by ambulance to a hospital in upstate New York.  This happened just one hour after my husband and I got there to visit my parents.  We spent the next three days in the hospital and once we brought mom home with new medications and promises to take it as prescribed, we headed for home in Nashville. The hurricane hit Florida that same weekend and so my in-laws were taken to shelters. It was very stressful for everyone to say the least. The day after everyone returned from the shelters, my father-in-law passed away.  We were grief-stricken. The very next day after that, my father was taken by ambulance to an upstate New York hospital. It was becoming a little hard for me to breathe by then, but my dad came home after a couple days.  Whew! Stress!

Bruce prepared to leave for Florida to be with his mother and sister and his flight was cancelled one hour before we were leaving for the airport. We scrambled and found another flight that went to Tampa. While enroute to Tampa, he found out his rental car was cancelled. He couldn’t find a hotel. He wouldn’t arrive there because of delays until after midnight. We prayed. We felt frustrated by everything. We finally managed to find a hotel and another car. He’s now in Ft. Myers.

Yesterday, we had a tornado go through Nashville and a tree came down in our backyard. My step son had a tree come down on his house. This morning Bruce is in the emergency room in Florida with high blood pressure and the potential need for knee surgery. I’m not there. We’re stressed.  I feel like Job’s wife. Tomorrow Bruce’s mom has to have tests for a mass on her liver.

I know that we all go through seasons of challenging times. Personally, I’m waving the white flag. Of course, I won’t be waving it long because I’ll be packing the car to drive to Florida shortly. If you happen to be a prayer person, or just someone with an encouraging word, I’m pretty open to your thoughts. Everything is haywire!  All I know is God must have a huge plan for our lives because we’re going through a boatload of distractions.

Love to you all today.

Karen

Walking in Bill’s Shoes

September 18, 2017 in Uncategorized

My Father-in-love, William Barbour was an incredible man and I have updated this post in his honor.

 

William Rinehart Barbour, Jr. turned 95 in March of 2017!  The sparkle in his eye was as welcoming as ever. His love for his family and friends radiated from a face that lit up when you entered his room, glowing more than 95 birthday candles ever could.  He had enviable silver white hair and a ready wit.  He was a man to be admired; always was, and always will be.

WRB, as he’s often called, was a man of many talents and for most of us, it’s hard to even imagine walking in his shoes.  Some of you may recognize his name as the man who picked up the gauntlet set down by his father and his uncle to find a way to make Christian books available to everyone.  His uncle, Fleming H. Revell, Sr., and His father, William R. Barbour, Sr. set the groundwork for WRB to continue to develop a publishing legacy.  He was an innovator and when he became president of Revell Publishing in 1968, he wanted to make sure that great preachers, Christian entertainers, businessmen and laymen, and notable women all had an opportunity to get their work into the marketplace.  He pioneered the things we take for granted today…getting Christian books into secular stores, creating books about family values, and ways to live life more honorably.  He published women like Marabel Morgan, whose “Total Woman” was one of the top selling books of the 70’s.  He published Corrie Ten Boom’s, “The Hiding Place”, and Dale Rogers’, “Angels Unaware.”  He was a publisher who was always connected to his readers and humbled by their messages.  He began every editorial meeting with a letter from someone who wrote to share how their life had changed because they read one of the books he published.  “This is why we do what we do,” he beamed.  He was intent on publishing books that mattered.

That’s not the whole story though.  Yes, he was a brilliant publisher, but even more he was a man with a capacity to love and forgive and bless the lives of others in every way he could.  He was a man who loved his brother Hugh and his sister-in-law, Eva. He loved everybody in ways that were reminiscent of the kind of brotherly love Jesus talked about.  He was a man who blessed his children, Bruce, Betsy, and Alan with gifts and talents beyond measure and hearts like his that are as big as all outdoors.  He was a man who honored his wife of 65 years, Mary, and understood the gift that she was to him for many years. He loved his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. William Rinehart Barbour, Jr. was a man with big shoes and most of us will spend years trying to find ways to walk in the path he created.  As his family and his friends, when he turned 95, we shouted with love and joy, “Happy Birthday, WRB!”  “Happy Birthday, incredible, remarkable and wonderful man!

Sometimes we wonder if we make a difference.  Sometimes we look in the mirror and try to imagine what it would be like if the work we did in the world, and the love we shared with others, could be so amazing that it would last forever, long after our days on earth are through. All I know is that it’s a great blessing to me to be part of this family and I’m humbled as a daughter-in-law, as an author of Christian books, and as a friend of this man to realize all he’s done to make my path a bit easier, long before he knew I’d ever be in his life.  I want to be like that.  I want to walk in Bill’s shoes!

Don’t you?

NOTE: William R. Barbour went home to be with Jesus on September 12, 2017.  He was peaceful and loving all the way to heaven.

 

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Karen

Wondering about Wonder Woman

July 5, 2017 in Inspirational

Yesterday was my birthday and Bruce and I decided to take the day off and simply be together.  We rarely go to a movie so we got a big bag of popcorn and pretended we were seventeen and settled back to watch Wonder Woman on the big screen.  It was a great choice for so many reasons.  You may feel differently about it if you see it, but I wanted to share the gift I received in a movie like that.  I appreciate a movie built around a female heroine, but that wasn’t the best part.  I appreciate the amazing technical aspects that bring a film to life, but that wasn’t the best part either.  The best part was that it made me wonder what part of me could possibly be like Wonder Woman.  You may laugh!  Sure, I don’t have her face, her power, or her abilities to fight off evil in the world, but what else did she exhibit? She reminded me that we can live fully and meaningfully if we believe in who we are meant to be.  In my case, that means that I believe God created me for a purpose, that He designed and equipped me to get a particular job done here on this planet.  One of the messages that was often given to Diana (Wonder Woman) as she grew up was that she had to believe in herself. She had to believe in her life purpose.  I think I need to do that too.  Beyond that, I have to learn to try even harder when there are setbacks, or even when there are bullies who want to make the pathways difficult.

When Diana found out who she was, who her Father was, she tried even more to live up to her calling.  She put her whole heart and mind and soul into it.  Now that’s the part, that I can do too.  I have been equipped by my Father to do amazing things. I have to be willing to put my whole heart into those things, to trust that they are part of my calling and to be steadfast in my willingness to keep moving forward in spite of setbacks.  I have to believe that I truly am my Father’s daughter!  I wonder if you and I can find our inner Wonder Woman, (Or Wonder Man)!  Can we believe so totally in who we are and what we are here to do that we put every bit of heart and love and imagination into it? Can we believe bigger now than we ever have before?  Can we put the wonder back into our own lives? No matter how old we are, we are called to perform wonders for the sake of those around us. We are called to love.   I wonder about Wonder Woman because I wonder what else I can do if I put my whole heart into it.

Stay tuned!  I’m getting my shield and my lasso of truth ready to do greater things.  I hope you are too.